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Advent 3 2025
Immanuel Lutheran Church, Hamilton, Ohio
Pastor Kevin Jud
December 14, 2025
Isaiah 35:1-10, James 5:7-11, Matthew 11:2-15
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A few years ago Jeannette and I went out to a nice restaurant but the service that night was slow. It was after the pandemic and everyone was short-staffed. The waitress finally came to take our order and after a long while the food came out. When we finished eating we began to wait for the check, but no check came. It seemed that suddenly all of the restaurant staff had disappeared. We waited and waited and…well… I am not good at waiting. I am not, by nature, a patient person. In a long, unexpected wait it can feel like you are going through the stages of waiting. Denial…this cannot be happening. I cannot really be stuck here waiting for a waitress to bring me a slip of paper so I can continue with my life. Anger…how dare she keep me waiting? Doesn’t she know that I have places to go. The longer we waited the greater my frustration and anger grew. I finally had enough of the waiting and I stood up and stomped up to the front reception area and demanded my bill so I could pay and leave. My impatience led to anger and childish behavior. I am not good at waiting and that night waiting for the check I did not have good patience or self-control.
Waiting is hard. The season of Advent is a season of waiting for the arrival of Jesus. It can seem like a very long wait for Christmas to come, especially for children. It is a season of waiting and there is nothing you can do to make the 25th of December come any sooner. Waiting is hard.
We are gathered here again this Sunday and we are still waiting for Jesus to return. I cannot patiently wait 20 minutes to get the check at a restaurant and I am supposed to be patiently waiting for Jesus to return. So far we have been waiting for 2,000 years. The Lord’s brother, James, tells us in our Epistle reading, James 5:7 (ESV) 7 Be patient, therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord…” Be patient.
Patience…why did it have to be patience?
Why is it so hard to be patient? Being patient is admitting that you are not in charge; that you are in a situation that you do not control. Being patient is humbling. Now, it has always been a struggle to be patient, but years ago life was slower and information was slower…things naturally took time; patience was a more natural part of life. Today we expect instant gratification. I want something and I want it now. I think of something I want and I can immediately order it from Amazon and it could be delivered the same day. If I want to look something up, I don’t have to wait to go to the library, I can look it up instantly wherever I am. And patience suffers.
Patience is a valuable life skill. The Stanford Marshmallow Experiment studied delayed gratification in children. A child was offered one marshmallow now or two if they waited for the researcher to return in about 15 mins. Children who waited longer tended to have better life outcomes; better test scores and better health. This study linked early self-control to later success.
Patience is important in so many aspects of life. Getting an education means patiently working through the given process. Raising children is patiently dealing with the struggles of the day as the years go by. Commuting to work takes patience dealing with traffic and terrible drivers. Working a job takes great patience as you deal with people and problems and politics and pressure. Recovering from illness or injury takes patience. Building wealth through working, saving and investing takes time and patience. Relationships with family and friends take patience.
The pull to give in to instant gratification is powerful. You have a desire and you want to immediately satisfy that desire. Many desires are harmless; I am hungry I want some food. I am thirsty, I need a drink. But there are desires and emotions that can lead you away from following God. You get impatient with others and allow your anger to bubble over as you yell and insult and demean others because of your impatience. You get greedy and then lie, cheat or steal to get money. You squander money on gambling and risky investments trying to get rich quick. You get impatient and do not want to wait until marriage. You grow weary of being patient with your spouse and give in to desires for intimacy with someone else. You desire to sleep in on Sunday morning instead of patiently getting the family ready to gather together to hear God’s Word and receive His gifts. You do not want to patiently trust in God’s timing. You get impatient waiting for God and give in to the world’s pressure to give up on God’s law and follow your feelings. All of us have much to repent of for our impatience.
Patience is a skill to be practiced. It is far more than just passive waiting; it’s an active practice of inner strength. It is about controlling your emotions, accepting discomfort, and trusting in the unfolding process. It is a fundamental skill for managing life’s inevitable delays and frustrations with grace and inner peace.
Being patient is difficult. Thanks be to God that the patience needed to wait for Jesus is not something that you accomplish on your own with your own strength. Patience is one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit dwelling in you. The Holy Spirit helps you with patience.
As the Church, united in Christ, we live together in love and peace and unity. We stay alert for division, because, in living together with others there is always the temptation to become impatient and grumble about how others are annoying or difficult or not meeting your expectations or they are just wrong because they disagree with you. The devil will use your pride against you to try to bring division and infighting into His Church. The Church is one in Christ and not to be separated by petty disagreements. James tells us, James 5:9 (ESV) 9 Do not grumble against one another, brothers, so that you may not be judged; behold, the Judge is standing at the door.”
Immanuel Lutheran Church & School is blessed by God to be facing a season of growing pains and new opportunities and facilities. As we look to the future there will be disagreements and many different ideas of how to proceed and rifts can develop. The devil will try to exploit any small rift and spread it into a great chasm. The devil will try to use any conflict to try to tear us apart. It will not work. We know his plans and we will stay alert for growing impatience with others. As we continue the planning process we will be vigilant that we remain patient with each other in love and unity in Christ.
James 5:7 (ESV) 7 Be patient, therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord…” Patience is keeping your eyes on the eternal promises of Jesus and not giving in to the temptation of immediate gratification. Patience is not giving in to your immediate sinful desires because you know that you have eternal life with the creator. Patience is a struggle, but you do not wait alone. Being the Church is all about being together, in Christ, waiting for Him to return. In worship we are reminded that we are waiting for the Last Day. At the end of the sermon, “And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus until He comes again in Glory.”
The devil will try to exploit any small rift and spread it into a great chasm. The devil will try to use any conflict to try to tear us apart. It will not work. We know his plans and we will stay alert for growing impatience with others.
After communion, “The Body and Blood of our Lord Jesus Christ strengthen and preserve you in true faith to life everlasting.” We wait together for Jesus’ return and continue to receive the gifts of God’s Word and His Sacraments. Until Jesus returns, the Church will deliver the forgiveness Jesus earned on the cross to His people and reach out to those who do not know the good news so they too may join with us in waiting, in joy, for Jesus. United in love, as the redeemed children of God, the Church patiently waits for Jesus to come. As we wait we make disciples; baptizing and teaching. James 5:7 (ESV) 7 Be patient, therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord…”
James, gives us three examples of patience. James 5:7 (ESV) 7 …See how the farmer waits for the precious fruit of the earth, being patient about it, until it receives the early and the late rains.” A farmer cannot hurry his crops. He plants the seeds and waits for rain and waits for the time to harvest. He cannot make the process go faster. He is not in control of the timing.
A second, James 5:10–11 (ESV) 10 As an example of suffering and patience, brothers, take the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord. 11 Behold, we consider those blessed who remained steadfast…” The Old Testament prophets patiently faced suffering and even death for bringing God’s Word to the children of Israel. In our Gospel reading today we see the same happening to John the Baptist. John is imprisoned by Herod Antipas and is living out the suffering and patience of a prophet. We must remain steadfast and patient in preaching the truth of God in a world that despises the truth. As Paul instructs Timothy, 2 Timothy 4:2 (ESV) 2 preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching.”
A third example, James 5:11 (ESV) You have heard of the steadfastness of Job, and you have seen the purpose of the Lord, how the Lord is compassionate and merciful.” In the midst of Job’s suffering Job 2:9–10 (ESV) 9 … his wife said to him, “Do you still hold fast your integrity? Curse God and die.” 10 But he said to her, “You speak as one of the foolish women would speak. Shall we receive good from God, and shall we not receive evil?” In all this Job did not sin with his lips.” Job patiently endured extreme suffering and grief despite all the advice to give up on God.
James gives these three examples of patience to encourage us on our way. Jesus is coming back to restore the creation and take you to live with Him forever in the heavenly city. Let the Spirit work patience in you. Remain united together in Jesus. Stay alert for divisions. James 5:7 (ESV) 7 Be patient, therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord…” Amen.








